"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I called this girl i met on Friday. she remembers who I'm and basically, I asked if she has time tomorrow after 5:30pm she says she does but told me to call her back tomorrow at 4:00pm to confirm. I said to her I can't call her because when I'm at work can't call out. I asked her to give me a call instead. She agrees.

What do you guys think about this? she will flake or she will call me tomorrow?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mustfirstregister said:
I called this girl i met on Friday. she remembers who I'm and basically, I asked if she has time tomorrow after 5:30pm she says she does but told me to call her back tomorrow at 4:00pm to confirm. I said to her I can't call her because when I'm at work can't call out. I asked her to give me a call instead. She agrees.

What do you guys think about this? she will flake or she will call me tomorrow?
Well just from reading this,I get the "feeling" that she may flake,but maybe that's just because I've seen this same type scenario on here like a thousand times over where the girl didn't call.


So I'll try to shake that feeling and look at this situation without any bias.

You think you could tell us (to the best you can) what the conversation was between you two? When you called her and she answered the phone,did you go straight into the talk about you two possibly seeing each other,or did you lead with something else first,then transition into the date talk?


Also,how long did the conversation last?

It's not really a good idea to put yourself in a position of waiting to hear from a girl,then that's where you are.


She may not call,but that doesn't mean she has no interest. You'll just need to be a bit more assertive to get her emotionally involved.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mustfirstregister said:
OK, she didn't call. What is the next step?
Call her 15 times begging for attention, and tell her how deeply you love her. :kick:
 

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Brekke are you serious? you should not be in this forum then.

yea, next her. But I think I will give her one more chance and call her once more tomorrow or Saturday, the reason being is because she offered her number to me and not me asking for the number.
 

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She might be having second thoughts because of your age. There are lots of young bucks in their 60s who are vying for her attention.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Brekke are you serious? you should not be in this forum then.

yea, next her. But I think I will give her one more chance and call her once more tomorrow or Saturday, the reason being is because she offered her number to me and not me asking for the number.

someone failed at sarcasm
 
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