"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking a girl to be ur GF

illmatic1005

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do you just say to a girl "would you be my girlfriend' or 'would you go out with me?" if you want to get together?

those lines sound like something a 13 year old would say...

BUT

What would a true DJ say?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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illmatic1005 said:
do you just say to a girl "would you be my girlfriend' or 'would you go out with me?" if you want to get together?

those lines sound like something a 13 year old would say...

BUT

What would a true DJ say?
And how old is the true DJ?
 
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Never verbalize a romantic interest!!! If you are having sex, then she is just another hor and no commitment should be expressed!!!
 

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Dude a true DJ doesn't say anything of the kind. A true DJ waits until she brings it up, brushes it off, and when she brings it up again, assuming at least 2 months has gone by, you talk about it.

But you don't start that stuff, don't say "I love you" first, don't talk about taking the relationship to the next level, nuttin' like that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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illmatic1005 said:
lol..i never asked a girl out..we just assumed
In fact, let the woman worry if you're going to be exclusive with her.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
lol..i never asked a girl out..we just assumed

good

keep doing what your doing and don't change a thing
 

illmatic1005

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Real said:
good

keep doing what your doing and don't change a thing

she said she wants a LTR with me..one that would last longer than 2 weeks too...

any advice?
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1249729#post1249729

She wants a man, so don't be a needy wuss. Never ask a woman for commitment.

If you want her to be your gf, here's what you do: have sex with her. Then act like it is no big deal. Then have sex with her again a few days later. After you repeat this process a few times, then you become her bf without ever having the 'will you be my gf?' conversation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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