“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Asking a girl to be ur GF

illmatic1005

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do you just say to a girl "would you be my girlfriend' or 'would you go out with me?" if you want to get together?

those lines sound like something a 13 year old would say...

BUT

What would a true DJ say?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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illmatic1005 said:
do you just say to a girl "would you be my girlfriend' or 'would you go out with me?" if you want to get together?

those lines sound like something a 13 year old would say...

BUT

What would a true DJ say?
And how old is the true DJ?
 
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Never verbalize a romantic interest!!! If you are having sex, then she is just another hor and no commitment should be expressed!!!
 

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Dude a true DJ doesn't say anything of the kind. A true DJ waits until she brings it up, brushes it off, and when she brings it up again, assuming at least 2 months has gone by, you talk about it.

But you don't start that stuff, don't say "I love you" first, don't talk about taking the relationship to the next level, nuttin' like that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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illmatic1005 said:
lol..i never asked a girl out..we just assumed
In fact, let the woman worry if you're going to be exclusive with her.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
lol..i never asked a girl out..we just assumed

good

keep doing what your doing and don't change a thing
 

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Real said:
good

keep doing what your doing and don't change a thing

she said she wants a LTR with me..one that would last longer than 2 weeks too...

any advice?
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1249729#post1249729

She wants a man, so don't be a needy wuss. Never ask a woman for commitment.

If you want her to be your gf, here's what you do: have sex with her. Then act like it is no big deal. Then have sex with her again a few days later. After you repeat this process a few times, then you become her bf without ever having the 'will you be my gf?' conversation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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