"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Asking a girl out on facebook

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johncrawford

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I used to work at a bar a few months ago and meet this girl.
I always thought that the guy she was with was her boyfriend.
Used to smile at me and turn her head my way to see if I was looking at her!

I bumped into her a while ago at my local bar/restaurant but only got her name because I was with my mother! Felt like there was a vibe there.She saw me first.She turned away then looked back again!
Sent her a message on facebook but said something about her supposed boyfriend so no reply.

Decided yesterday just to send a friend request and she added!

It says she is single and looking for friends!

Should I ask her out and how should I phrase it?

Thanks guys for any assistance that you may be able to give.

John:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would say first get a response from her before you message her for a date (I would try to the number, and call to ask for the date). Make it a small talk message. Keep it light and fun and only a few sentences.. Guage her reply for her IL (which can be tough).. Then next msg say you'd like to catch up and "what is your number?"...

Or she may be one of those people that posts their number on their profile, which would be even easier!
 
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id get her to IM with you....emails take to long, IM are well.........instant, then hit her up for her digits.
 
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