"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking a girl out on facebook

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I used to work at a bar a few months ago and meet this girl.
I always thought that the guy she was with was her boyfriend.
Used to smile at me and turn her head my way to see if I was looking at her!

I bumped into her a while ago at my local bar/restaurant but only got her name because I was with my mother! Felt like there was a vibe there.She saw me first.She turned away then looked back again!
Sent her a message on facebook but said something about her supposed boyfriend so no reply.

Decided yesterday just to send a friend request and she added!

It says she is single and looking for friends!

Should I ask her out and how should I phrase it?

Thanks guys for any assistance that you may be able to give.

John:up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would say first get a response from her before you message her for a date (I would try to the number, and call to ask for the date). Make it a small talk message. Keep it light and fun and only a few sentences.. Guage her reply for her IL (which can be tough).. Then next msg say you'd like to catch up and "what is your number?"...

Or she may be one of those people that posts their number on their profile, which would be even easier!
 
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id get her to IM with you....emails take to long, IM are well.........instant, then hit her up for her digits.
 
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