"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asking a girl her cupsize

NeedToImprove

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is it a reason for a girl to be so pudic and being a bi*** and treat you bad or it depends of the guy who asks her that. just curious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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depends how she views you, usually girls will answer it when its in the jist of conversation... now if its all silent and u randomly blurt out how big are ur tits then obviously you are going to get the reaction that you seem to be getting
 

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of course its in the jist of a conversation, not just blurting out that. i just dont think they need to be so pudic about it. or it may depend if a girl finds a guy attractive or not (even though she knows him or not).
 

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What is "Pudic?"

And if it comes up, go for it! But I'd wait until a woman talks about her tits first.
 

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surprisingly, i've asked many girls their cupsize and they love answering it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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more info needed,
we cant tell if it was you being weak or had a wrong angle on it or her or what...!
 

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The boring truth is that most girls aren't really sure, it depends on the brand as they all seem to differ now. And also the original measuring system, which we still use today, was made with A-D cups in mind so doesn't work as well for bigger sizes which will tend to vary.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CuriousGirl said:
Oh, it varies. And before you ask, I gargle. :) :) :)
i'm expecting some pictures in my pm :)

show me them double d's babe!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
 

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Cinamon said:
Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
proof pics needed;)
 
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