"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking a girl her cupsize

NeedToImprove

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is it a reason for a girl to be so pudic and being a bi*** and treat you bad or it depends of the guy who asks her that. just curious.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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depends how she views you, usually girls will answer it when its in the jist of conversation... now if its all silent and u randomly blurt out how big are ur tits then obviously you are going to get the reaction that you seem to be getting
 

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of course its in the jist of a conversation, not just blurting out that. i just dont think they need to be so pudic about it. or it may depend if a girl finds a guy attractive or not (even though she knows him or not).
 

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What is "Pudic?"

And if it comes up, go for it! But I'd wait until a woman talks about her tits first.
 

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surprisingly, i've asked many girls their cupsize and they love answering it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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more info needed,
we cant tell if it was you being weak or had a wrong angle on it or her or what...!
 

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The boring truth is that most girls aren't really sure, it depends on the brand as they all seem to differ now. And also the original measuring system, which we still use today, was made with A-D cups in mind so doesn't work as well for bigger sizes which will tend to vary.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chance

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CuriousGirl said:
Oh, it varies. And before you ask, I gargle. :) :) :)
i'm expecting some pictures in my pm :)

show me them double d's babe!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
 

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Cinamon said:
Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
proof pics needed;)
 
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