"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking a girl her cupsize

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is it a reason for a girl to be so pudic and being a bi*** and treat you bad or it depends of the guy who asks her that. just curious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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depends how she views you, usually girls will answer it when its in the jist of conversation... now if its all silent and u randomly blurt out how big are ur tits then obviously you are going to get the reaction that you seem to be getting
 

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of course its in the jist of a conversation, not just blurting out that. i just dont think they need to be so pudic about it. or it may depend if a girl finds a guy attractive or not (even though she knows him or not).
 

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What is "Pudic?"

And if it comes up, go for it! But I'd wait until a woman talks about her tits first.
 

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surprisingly, i've asked many girls their cupsize and they love answering it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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more info needed,
we cant tell if it was you being weak or had a wrong angle on it or her or what...!
 

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The boring truth is that most girls aren't really sure, it depends on the brand as they all seem to differ now. And also the original measuring system, which we still use today, was made with A-D cups in mind so doesn't work as well for bigger sizes which will tend to vary.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CuriousGirl said:
Oh, it varies. And before you ask, I gargle. :) :) :)
i'm expecting some pictures in my pm :)

show me them double d's babe!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
 

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Cinamon said:
Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
proof pics needed;)
 
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