"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Asking a girl her cupsize

NeedToImprove

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is it a reason for a girl to be so pudic and being a bi*** and treat you bad or it depends of the guy who asks her that. just curious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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depends how she views you, usually girls will answer it when its in the jist of conversation... now if its all silent and u randomly blurt out how big are ur tits then obviously you are going to get the reaction that you seem to be getting
 

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of course its in the jist of a conversation, not just blurting out that. i just dont think they need to be so pudic about it. or it may depend if a girl finds a guy attractive or not (even though she knows him or not).
 

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What is "Pudic?"

And if it comes up, go for it! But I'd wait until a woman talks about her tits first.
 

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surprisingly, i've asked many girls their cupsize and they love answering it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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more info needed,
we cant tell if it was you being weak or had a wrong angle on it or her or what...!
 

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The boring truth is that most girls aren't really sure, it depends on the brand as they all seem to differ now. And also the original measuring system, which we still use today, was made with A-D cups in mind so doesn't work as well for bigger sizes which will tend to vary.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CuriousGirl said:
Oh, it varies. And before you ask, I gargle. :) :) :)
i'm expecting some pictures in my pm :)

show me them double d's babe!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
 

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Cinamon said:
Generally if a guy that absolutely repulses you, or is waaaayyyyyyyy below your league asks you a question like that, he can expect to get a harsh response. Also, some girls can be prudish and chose not to answer, but if you are having a laugh, messing bout, you are likely to get a better response.

Also, if a girl is fairly flat, dont ask her, she may well be self conscious about it, and it wont do you any favours.

If i like the guy, my answer is usually two hands and a mouth full with a naughty smile.
proof pics needed;)
 
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