"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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asked this guy who gets laid 2-3 times a week about dating

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I was talking to this guy at work who gets laid 2-3 times a week. He is a Tom Leykis listener. And I asked him about how he dates women and this is what he told me

- call them up beginning of week
- never pick up your phone if a chick calls you on a friday and saturday unless you have something planned

I think also in addition:

- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm, I've got the Thursday thing down, but I'll start taking the other two to heart
 
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wow your missing the big picture suave
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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verysuave said:
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- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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Are you saying contact them on Thursday for a date or go out with them on Thursday?

As for calling them in the beginning of the week, I can see the logic but I say call them whenever. Ever call a woman Friday afternoon for a get together the following Tuesday? It drives some women nuts. Plus, you don't always need to be completely scarce on Friday. Chat for a minute or two and then end the call because you have to get ready to go out for the evening. :up:
 
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