"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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asked this guy who gets laid 2-3 times a week about dating

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I was talking to this guy at work who gets laid 2-3 times a week. He is a Tom Leykis listener. And I asked him about how he dates women and this is what he told me

- call them up beginning of week
- never pick up your phone if a chick calls you on a friday and saturday unless you have something planned

I think also in addition:

- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hmm, I've got the Thursday thing down, but I'll start taking the other two to heart
 
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wow your missing the big picture suave
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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verysuave said:
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- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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Are you saying contact them on Thursday for a date or go out with them on Thursday?

As for calling them in the beginning of the week, I can see the logic but I say call them whenever. Ever call a woman Friday afternoon for a get together the following Tuesday? It drives some women nuts. Plus, you don't always need to be completely scarce on Friday. Chat for a minute or two and then end the call because you have to get ready to go out for the evening. :up:
 
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