"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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asked this guy who gets laid 2-3 times a week about dating

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I was talking to this guy at work who gets laid 2-3 times a week. He is a Tom Leykis listener. And I asked him about how he dates women and this is what he told me

- call them up beginning of week
- never pick up your phone if a chick calls you on a friday and saturday unless you have something planned

I think also in addition:

- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hmm, I've got the Thursday thing down, but I'll start taking the other two to heart
 

EFFORT

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wow your missing the big picture suave
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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verysuave said:
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- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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Are you saying contact them on Thursday for a date or go out with them on Thursday?

As for calling them in the beginning of the week, I can see the logic but I say call them whenever. Ever call a woman Friday afternoon for a get together the following Tuesday? It drives some women nuts. Plus, you don't always need to be completely scarce on Friday. Chat for a minute or two and then end the call because you have to get ready to go out for the evening. :up:
 
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