"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asked this guy who gets laid 2-3 times a week about dating

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I was talking to this guy at work who gets laid 2-3 times a week. He is a Tom Leykis listener. And I asked him about how he dates women and this is what he told me

- call them up beginning of week
- never pick up your phone if a chick calls you on a friday and saturday unless you have something planned

I think also in addition:

- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hmm, I've got the Thursday thing down, but I'll start taking the other two to heart
 
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wow your missing the big picture suave
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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verysuave said:
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- always setup your date on thursdays to make them think they aint good enough.

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Are you saying contact them on Thursday for a date or go out with them on Thursday?

As for calling them in the beginning of the week, I can see the logic but I say call them whenever. Ever call a woman Friday afternoon for a get together the following Tuesday? It drives some women nuts. Plus, you don't always need to be completely scarce on Friday. Chat for a minute or two and then end the call because you have to get ready to go out for the evening. :up:
 
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