"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Asked my friend out on THE DAY she got back w/ her bf

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i asked her to homecoming the day she got back with her bf.

woooo awesome yeah?

well you can imagine how that went.
that was about mmm 1-2 weeks ago.

so today she realized her bf didn't wana go to homecoming so shes not going either, she comes up to me and tells me:

her: DUUUUDE i wish i got back with him AFTER homecoming...
me: why?
her: because then i could go!
me: *goes justin timberlake on her ass* go home and cry me a riverrr~~

:D


yeah... anyways my homecoming search isn't going so well
girl 1: doesnt want to go cause her friends aren't going
girl 2: one stated in story above
girl 3: has work on saturday(homecoming day)

just awesome.
:crazy:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd take her anyways if I felt the need and she was down.
 
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Hate to be n00b, but wtf is Homecoming? I'm from Hong Kong- we don't have it.
 
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my home coming already passed like 3-4 weeks ago

i didnt go cuz only the eXtremely rich freshman go and i didnt have $100 to just flush down the toilet
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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/\damn, our homecomings like $5....id rather jus go to the football game and go to one of the formal dances...
 
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girl # 1 (thats a big excuse, if she was even remotely interested, she'd go with you no doubt.)
girl # 2 ( Don't go with her unless you know what you're doing. Cause' if you don't, she could easily turn you into a AFC and you wouldn't know it.)
girl # 3 (Same as #1 ,depending if her job is extremely important or not. If its just a part time side job that she doesn't really care about, then its just another excuse.)

I'd say you find some other girl to take to homecoming, chances are theres many girls in your school you haven't even met or approached.
 
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of course, girl#1 i'm only interested in her as a friend, same with girl 2 AND 3 hrmmm but yeah i do know what i'm doing w/ girl #2 shes probably my best friend what's an AFC?

girl #3 i didn't actually ask, i just asked her if shes going to homecoming and shes like oh no i have work that day, whY? and i duno WHY i said this but i regret it i just said " oh no reason"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I recommend you stop being a fool and get a girl to go with you and NOT make lame excuses!
 
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u asked all those girls? dang man. at our school, it is customary for the guys to ask the girls with an entire bouquet of flowers (for homecoming and prom) and that **** is expensive.
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Wtf...

:flowers: = :kick:
 
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TheVirtualMind said:
Wtf...

:flowers: = :kick:
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i know. i know. another reason i dont attend my school's dances. if i did, id do with with a single flower, like a rose, or something, and id make up for that with lots of neg hits =P
 
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