"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asked my friend out on THE DAY she got back w/ her bf

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i asked her to homecoming the day she got back with her bf.

woooo awesome yeah?

well you can imagine how that went.
that was about mmm 1-2 weeks ago.

so today she realized her bf didn't wana go to homecoming so shes not going either, she comes up to me and tells me:

her: DUUUUDE i wish i got back with him AFTER homecoming...
me: why?
her: because then i could go!
me: *goes justin timberlake on her ass* go home and cry me a riverrr~~

:D


yeah... anyways my homecoming search isn't going so well
girl 1: doesnt want to go cause her friends aren't going
girl 2: one stated in story above
girl 3: has work on saturday(homecoming day)

just awesome.
:crazy:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'd take her anyways if I felt the need and she was down.
 

Soapz

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Hate to be n00b, but wtf is Homecoming? I'm from Hong Kong- we don't have it.
 
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my home coming already passed like 3-4 weeks ago

i didnt go cuz only the eXtremely rich freshman go and i didnt have $100 to just flush down the toilet
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i am me

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/\damn, our homecomings like $5....id rather jus go to the football game and go to one of the formal dances...
 

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girl # 1 (thats a big excuse, if she was even remotely interested, she'd go with you no doubt.)
girl # 2 ( Don't go with her unless you know what you're doing. Cause' if you don't, she could easily turn you into a AFC and you wouldn't know it.)
girl # 3 (Same as #1 ,depending if her job is extremely important or not. If its just a part time side job that she doesn't really care about, then its just another excuse.)

I'd say you find some other girl to take to homecoming, chances are theres many girls in your school you haven't even met or approached.
 

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of course, girl#1 i'm only interested in her as a friend, same with girl 2 AND 3 hrmmm but yeah i do know what i'm doing w/ girl #2 shes probably my best friend what's an AFC?

girl #3 i didn't actually ask, i just asked her if shes going to homecoming and shes like oh no i have work that day, whY? and i duno WHY i said this but i regret it i just said " oh no reason"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I recommend you stop being a fool and get a girl to go with you and NOT make lame excuses!
 

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u asked all those girls? dang man. at our school, it is customary for the guys to ask the girls with an entire bouquet of flowers (for homecoming and prom) and that **** is expensive.
Wtf...

:flowers: = :kick:
 

Michael Chief

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TheVirtualMind said:
Wtf...

:flowers: = :kick:
i know. i know. another reason i dont attend my school's dances. if i did, id do with with a single flower, like a rose, or something, and id make up for that with lots of neg hits =P
 
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