Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Asked my friend out on THE DAY she got back w/ her bf

Kev07

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i asked her to homecoming the day she got back with her bf.

woooo awesome yeah?

well you can imagine how that went.
that was about mmm 1-2 weeks ago.

so today she realized her bf didn't wana go to homecoming so shes not going either, she comes up to me and tells me:

her: DUUUUDE i wish i got back with him AFTER homecoming...
me: why?
her: because then i could go!
me: *goes justin timberlake on her ass* go home and cry me a riverrr~~

:D


yeah... anyways my homecoming search isn't going so well
girl 1: doesnt want to go cause her friends aren't going
girl 2: one stated in story above
girl 3: has work on saturday(homecoming day)

just awesome.
:crazy:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'd take her anyways if I felt the need and she was down.
 

Soapz

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Hate to be n00b, but wtf is Homecoming? I'm from Hong Kong- we don't have it.
 
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my home coming already passed like 3-4 weeks ago

i didnt go cuz only the eXtremely rich freshman go and i didnt have $100 to just flush down the toilet
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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/\damn, our homecomings like $5....id rather jus go to the football game and go to one of the formal dances...
 

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girl # 1 (thats a big excuse, if she was even remotely interested, she'd go with you no doubt.)
girl # 2 ( Don't go with her unless you know what you're doing. Cause' if you don't, she could easily turn you into a AFC and you wouldn't know it.)
girl # 3 (Same as #1 ,depending if her job is extremely important or not. If its just a part time side job that she doesn't really care about, then its just another excuse.)

I'd say you find some other girl to take to homecoming, chances are theres many girls in your school you haven't even met or approached.
 

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of course, girl#1 i'm only interested in her as a friend, same with girl 2 AND 3 hrmmm but yeah i do know what i'm doing w/ girl #2 shes probably my best friend what's an AFC?

girl #3 i didn't actually ask, i just asked her if shes going to homecoming and shes like oh no i have work that day, whY? and i duno WHY i said this but i regret it i just said " oh no reason"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I recommend you stop being a fool and get a girl to go with you and NOT make lame excuses!
 

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u asked all those girls? dang man. at our school, it is customary for the guys to ask the girls with an entire bouquet of flowers (for homecoming and prom) and that **** is expensive.
Wtf...

:flowers: = :kick:
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
Wtf...

:flowers: = :kick:
i know. i know. another reason i dont attend my school's dances. if i did, id do with with a single flower, like a rose, or something, and id make up for that with lots of neg hits =P
 
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