"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Long story short, we both like each other.

I want her to be my girlfriend, but since I've only had unofficial relationships in the past, I am not familiar in the ways to ask someone to be my girlfriend. A few days ago, she asked what I want out of the whole thing, what am I to say?

"Will you be my girlfriend?"

I mean, I guess that's the only straight up way to say it.

"Will you go out with me?"

IDK. These are so blunt. All my friends generally just ask them to be their boy/girlfriend. Is it just that simple?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ohiobohio518 said:
Long story short, we both like each other.

I want her to be my girlfriend, but since I've only had unofficial relationships in the past, I am not familiar in the ways to ask someone to be my girlfriend. A few days ago, she asked what I want out of the whole thing, what am I to say?

"Will you be my girlfriend?"

I mean, I guess that's the only straight up way to say it.

"Will you go out with me?"

IDK. These are so blunt. All my friends generally just ask them to be their boy/girlfriend. Is it just that simple?
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"Hey, baby, a trial: For 2 (or a different number) weeks you and I are gf and bf, and after that, I'll decide if I want you on permanent basis or not."
Something like that.
 
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nono, you dont understand. i've been DATING her for a few weeks. i need to decide now what i want with her and im making my decision.

this is why i want to know how i do it. im making it OFFICIAL. i've never done this before. therefore i need advice.

i just need to know if, "will you be my gf" would suffice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OK Yes, i've seen that post. I've read the bible in its entirety. I'm not an AFC.

She wants me to decide. She came up to me and said:

"If you want something out of this, tell me. And if you're not gonna do anything about it, also tell me."

It is not a question of her interest level. She has confirmed time and time again, and even told me that she really likes me. She also said she wouldn't be comfortable if I foold around with other women for that exact reason.

My decision guys, mine. I just want to know how to do it.
 
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i already said in my previous post that SHE brought it up. i asked her what SHE wanted after she asked me and she said that it's "up to me." obviously - because i'm a senior going off to college and she's a junior. she thinks i have the final say.

oh i forgot i didnt specify that last part about how old i am vs. how old she is. i think it makes a difference. anyway, back to my original question? please??
 
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What do you want?

If you want her, tell her, if you don't, well then be on your merry way.

You already knew the answer before I told you, there's no need to find a special way to say it.

What did people like you do before this site was around, they did it themselves -_-
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dannowillbookem said:
she needs to bring it up, not you
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Very TRUE, I totally agree with this... if you want to make ur relationship "exclusvie or more serious" SHE has to def. bring it up otherwise it'll look to her that your the jealous insecure type. Just continue to go on dates with her, and try to see other women too so she'll get jealous.
 
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No! No! No! Man you never and i repeat NEVER ask a girl to become exclusive, always wait for her to make that step - its the ultimate IOI, while ever she DOSNT ask you to become exclusive, it means shes still open to seeing other people - you havent emotionally hooked her yet. Success with women is finding ONE that is truly interested in who YOU are, how will you ever know if shes interested if you ask her FIRST? No! Always wait for her to ask you , that is how you get to know her Interest Level - that is the way to happiness.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's action over words...act like you are her boyfriend. Now, I'm not saying smoother her with affection and love because it'll backfire on you. But, kiss her and act like a boyfriend..be a little more apart of her life, at the same time keeping your own life, etc.
 
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