“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

ask her out on xmas

surface1030

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2004
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
Age
38
this chick and i have been going out on dates for the past 3 months, just chillin and having fun. i keep it fun and i make fun of her and make her laugh so much. she ALWAYS says this little thing like every 5 minutes non stop so i got her this shirt of what she always says. i thought it was kind of thoughtful i dont know why but i think its alright. so when i give it to her, i want to give her a card and maybe another present that shows a little more meaning than just a shirt. i want to give the idea that i want a relationship with her. i want to ask her to be my gf when i give her the present on xmas. after all, it is xmas and i want to be just a little sweet. could someone help me out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Joined
Nov 16, 2004
Messages
366
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by surface1030
this chick and i have been going out on dates for the past 3 months, just chillin and having fun. i keep it fun and i make fun of her and make her laugh so much. she ALWAYS says this little thing like every 5 minutes non stop so i got her this shirt of what she always says. i thought it was kind of thoughtful i dont know why but i think its alright. so when i give it to her, i want to give her a card and maybe another present that shows a little more meaning than just a shirt. i want to give the idea that i want a relationship with her. i want to ask her to be my gf when i give her the present on xmas. after all, it is xmas and i want to be just a little sweet. could someone help me out
u cant buy love, and she dont sound likea hooker so don try to buy sex.
:confused: what the hell are u thinking, ask her out now so maybe JUST MAYBE, you can start a LTR by christmas
AND THE SHIRT
is only good once u dating her for at least the minimum time..... since its christmas, a week. dont buy anymore, she isnt there for your money, and thats not the message u want to send her.
 
Joined
Dec 8, 2004
Messages
214
Reaction score
0
Re: Re: ask her out on xmas

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
u cant buy love, and she dont sound likea hooker so don try to buy sex.
:confused: what the hell are u thinking, ask her out now so maybe JUST MAYBE, you can start a LTR by christmas
AND THE SHIRT
is only good once u dating her for at least the minimum time..... since its christmas, a week. dont buy anymore, she isnt there for your money, and thats not the message u want to send her.
I rarely understand what you're talking about.
 

Bussey

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 8, 2004
Messages
376
Reaction score
4
Location
Toronto
HAHA, O Fitch.

Seriously though, thats kinda... really sweet and nice... your bringing a tear to my eye. :rolleyes:

I don't have any advice, seems pretty AFC to me...
 

surface1030

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2004
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
Age
38
i dont think it does seem any AFC becuase the only reason i want to be sweet is because i've talked to all of my girl-friends at school and they said to be as sweet as you can on xmas becuase its important. i honestly dont know why. i'm not sweet to this girl 24/7 because i have a life. i'm just doing it because the majority of girls in my school told me to be sweet to her on this one special day. so i came to you guys for a simple gift that says, "hey i care for you and so on".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Joined
Dec 8, 2004
Messages
214
Reaction score
0
You guys say it seems AFC, but why? Because he's giving her a gift?

They've been dating for 3 months already. They're in a relationship, just not an exclusive one, and getting her a gift for Christmas, the most commercialized and, let's face it, important holiday in America is totally understandable.

good luck.
 
Joined
Nov 16, 2004
Messages
366
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
You guys say it seems AFC, but why? Because he's giving her a gift?

They've been dating for 3 months already. They're in a relationship, just not an exclusive one, and getting her a <a style='text-decoration: none; border-bottom: 3px double;' href="http://www.serverlogic3.com/lm/rtl3.asp?si=5&k=gift%20for" onmouseover="window.status='gift for'; return true;" onmouseout="window.status=''; return true;">gift for</a> Christmas, the most commercialized and, let's face it, important holiday in America is totally understandable.

good luck.
dude did u read anything, EVEN THE THREAD TITLE,
they havent been dating at all, hes just been chillin wit her as a friend, getting her a gift is trying to buy love, especially if u ask her out right after:rolleyes: he needs to know u cant buy love, maybe he can give her the shirt for xmas n MAYBE if he plays his cards right can get into sumtin serious in time, but BUYING anything MORE than a TSHIRT is BUYING LOVE wich is not possible.
 
Joined
Dec 8, 2004
Messages
214
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
dude did u read anything, EVEN THE THREAD TITLE,
they havent been dating at all, hes just been chillin wit her as a friend
this chick and i have been going out on dates for the past 3 months, just chillin and having fun.
 
Top