Ask girl out on first phone call?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I cold approached this girl at school, her ride came and we didnt get to talk much but i got her number. We didnt build much rapport. Should i build more rapport in the phone call and then as her out later. Or just build more rapport in the call and ask her out at the same time?

-thanks.

 

[Obsidian]

whatever you do, don't call her up and talk for more than about 3-4 minutes

 

[Luke Skywalker]

First of all, let's take it one step first. You call her first and you'll likely get her answering machine - thus, don't worry about it, just call and either leave a message and ask her out in the message, or continue calling until you able to reach her in person.

You'll be doing fine if you able to even contact her, let alone asking her out.

 

[kdnash82]

the purpose of calling is to set up a date. you build rapport on the date. 9/10 she won't answer the phone and you'll be forced to leave a message. i get creative with this.

"hey Susie, this is kdnash! i met you at the so and so the other day. we were talking about so and so. give me a call at ###-727-#### when you get this so i can" *hang up before you finish*

she'll call back wondering what happened or to find out the rest of the story and you can set up a date

 

[Obsidian]

wow, that hanging up idea is sweet, kdnash