"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ask a guy who went into beta phaggot mode tonight anything
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Gambler
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Purefilth
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nothing wrong with having some 'georgie24 alone time'georgie24 said:
hell I have 'Purefilth alonetime' its good to chill sometimes.
now i think of it, "purefilth alone time" kinda sounds like a weekend of fapfapfap!
:crackup:"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i dont want this to turn into a weekly pattern were i turn into a hermit on the weekends
us that are self employed have liberties to do what we want any day of the week
the appeal of "tgif" is gone i lost the enthusiasm for it years ago but 99% of society still does 9-5 during the week and lives for the weekends
im thinking about getting a part time job just to get into the swing and get the vibe
what you guys think?
I remember when I worked for an employer and I lived in an apartment and one morning I was in the bathroom starting the shower and realized that the guy next door was in the shower and the guy below me was in the shower and the guy diagonally down from me was in the shower too. A bunch of middle-class idiots all showering in unison in preparation for the daily rat-race.
Be thankful you don't have to deal with that. Most people are in crowds their entire life. M-F morning commute, M-F lunch rush, M-F evening commute, Fri/Sat nightlife. Be thrilled you're in a position to live life outside that box.
TonyBaloney
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hey bud,georgie24 said:
I am self employed too.
Although Im English, dont understand what refeed and tgif men???????
But I know that self employment has ups and downs.......i for one, if i have a blank day, get up about midday and go to bed at 4am....... very undisciplined!!!!!!!!!!!
Ha, least when i have bishes here, I can spend time in the morning trying to anal-ize them, rather than rushing off to work
Thrill Seeker
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Why don't you get a weekend job bartending? It can be a fun gig for a while. Dealing with drunks will add ammo to any decision not to binge drink and will put you in the scene and in front of women if you get in at the right spot. But if you fall in with the wrong crowd after-hours the 'scene' can turn into a negative, so maintain your mindset.