"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ask a guy who went into beta phaggot mode tonight anything
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Gambler
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Purefilth
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nothing wrong with having some 'georgie24 alone time'georgie24 said:
hell I have 'Purefilth alonetime' its good to chill sometimes.
now i think of it, "purefilth alone time" kinda sounds like a weekend of fapfapfap!
:crackup:"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i dont want this to turn into a weekly pattern were i turn into a hermit on the weekends
us that are self employed have liberties to do what we want any day of the week
the appeal of "tgif" is gone i lost the enthusiasm for it years ago but 99% of society still does 9-5 during the week and lives for the weekends
im thinking about getting a part time job just to get into the swing and get the vibe
what you guys think?
I remember when I worked for an employer and I lived in an apartment and one morning I was in the bathroom starting the shower and realized that the guy next door was in the shower and the guy below me was in the shower and the guy diagonally down from me was in the shower too. A bunch of middle-class idiots all showering in unison in preparation for the daily rat-race.
Be thankful you don't have to deal with that. Most people are in crowds their entire life. M-F morning commute, M-F lunch rush, M-F evening commute, Fri/Sat nightlife. Be thrilled you're in a position to live life outside that box.
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hey bud,georgie24 said:
I am self employed too.
Although Im English, dont understand what refeed and tgif men???????
But I know that self employment has ups and downs.......i for one, if i have a blank day, get up about midday and go to bed at 4am....... very undisciplined!!!!!!!!!!!
Ha, least when i have bishes here, I can spend time in the morning trying to anal-ize them, rather than rushing off to work
Thrill Seeker
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Why don't you get a weekend job bartending? It can be a fun gig for a while. Dealing with drunks will add ammo to any decision not to binge drink and will put you in the scene and in front of women if you get in at the right spot. But if you fall in with the wrong crowd after-hours the 'scene' can turn into a negative, so maintain your mindset.