"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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downandout

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hey guys, i will be graduating from college in the u.s. and moving to europe next year, hopefully to find a job, and failing that, party and get girls.

anyways, i'm an asian guy raised in the u.s. and have had mixed success here. mostly mediocre girls and unsatisfying relationships...

i was just curious for all you older worldly travellers...which country have you found the women really keen on dating an asian guy? i used to play basketball (DIII) for my school, so i'm pretty tall and athletic, although i'm a little shy.

i read on the web that french girls are pretty keen on asian guys, but it sounds like it's just rumors. anyways, i'd appreciate any advice you guys have. i'm looking forward to getting out of the u.s. for a while.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KiInCollege

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Don't get in the midset of narrowing it down, man. Asian girls are the most likely, of course. But there are exceptions to every "rule." You should work on your shyness, and be open to everyone. Exercise your body more - don't be content. Try for EC and a smile with any cute girl, not just French girls that you heard have a thing for Asians.

Start preparing your convo about how you're from the U.S., but wanted to experience life there. That's a ton of questions that any girl interested would want to know more about.
 
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Who is John Galt?

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The English

I am South Asian and I did far better in London, England than I have done in any other country, including the US. I don't know how things are for East Asians, though, but it seems that England is more open to interracial dating than the US. After all, they don't have race drilled into them 24/7 like Americans do.

Note: I say England because the rest of the UK has a different culture and things may be different.
 
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Downandout,


I think you need to PM me. I have some suggestions for you, from one East Asian brother to another.


-Jake.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jakethasnake

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Damn, I checked, and I only have about 20 or so messages in my mailbox. Is the capacity of all our mailboxes THAT SMALL? How irritating. :rolleyes:


Anyway, try again. I erased some of the **** in my box.
 
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