"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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downandout

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hey guys, i will be graduating from college in the u.s. and moving to europe next year, hopefully to find a job, and failing that, party and get girls.

anyways, i'm an asian guy raised in the u.s. and have had mixed success here. mostly mediocre girls and unsatisfying relationships...

i was just curious for all you older worldly travellers...which country have you found the women really keen on dating an asian guy? i used to play basketball (DIII) for my school, so i'm pretty tall and athletic, although i'm a little shy.

i read on the web that french girls are pretty keen on asian guys, but it sounds like it's just rumors. anyways, i'd appreciate any advice you guys have. i'm looking forward to getting out of the u.s. for a while.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KiInCollege

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Don't get in the midset of narrowing it down, man. Asian girls are the most likely, of course. But there are exceptions to every "rule." You should work on your shyness, and be open to everyone. Exercise your body more - don't be content. Try for EC and a smile with any cute girl, not just French girls that you heard have a thing for Asians.

Start preparing your convo about how you're from the U.S., but wanted to experience life there. That's a ton of questions that any girl interested would want to know more about.
 
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Who is John Galt?

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The English

I am South Asian and I did far better in London, England than I have done in any other country, including the US. I don't know how things are for East Asians, though, but it seems that England is more open to interracial dating than the US. After all, they don't have race drilled into them 24/7 like Americans do.

Note: I say England because the rest of the UK has a different culture and things may be different.
 
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Downandout,


I think you need to PM me. I have some suggestions for you, from one East Asian brother to another.


-Jake.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Damn, I checked, and I only have about 20 or so messages in my mailbox. Is the capacity of all our mailboxes THAT SMALL? How irritating. :rolleyes:


Anyway, try again. I erased some of the **** in my box.
 
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