"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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downandout

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hey guys, i will be graduating from college in the u.s. and moving to europe next year, hopefully to find a job, and failing that, party and get girls.

anyways, i'm an asian guy raised in the u.s. and have had mixed success here. mostly mediocre girls and unsatisfying relationships...

i was just curious for all you older worldly travellers...which country have you found the women really keen on dating an asian guy? i used to play basketball (DIII) for my school, so i'm pretty tall and athletic, although i'm a little shy.

i read on the web that french girls are pretty keen on asian guys, but it sounds like it's just rumors. anyways, i'd appreciate any advice you guys have. i'm looking forward to getting out of the u.s. for a while.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KiInCollege

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Don't get in the midset of narrowing it down, man. Asian girls are the most likely, of course. But there are exceptions to every "rule." You should work on your shyness, and be open to everyone. Exercise your body more - don't be content. Try for EC and a smile with any cute girl, not just French girls that you heard have a thing for Asians.

Start preparing your convo about how you're from the U.S., but wanted to experience life there. That's a ton of questions that any girl interested would want to know more about.
 
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Who is John Galt?

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The English

I am South Asian and I did far better in London, England than I have done in any other country, including the US. I don't know how things are for East Asians, though, but it seems that England is more open to interracial dating than the US. After all, they don't have race drilled into them 24/7 like Americans do.

Note: I say England because the rest of the UK has a different culture and things may be different.
 
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Downandout,


I think you need to PM me. I have some suggestions for you, from one East Asian brother to another.


-Jake.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jakethasnake

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Damn, I checked, and I only have about 20 or so messages in my mailbox. Is the capacity of all our mailboxes THAT SMALL? How irritating. :rolleyes:


Anyway, try again. I erased some of the **** in my box.
 
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