Yes it is good for men of all races to do the above.Stblack said:
speakeasy said:
No, they are not. Stop telling yourself that.ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Argh. I wrote a long reply but it got lost. It's pretty damn annoying.The Muscle Guy said:
Ha ha, nother Filipino here. Well I'm mixed actually, mexican and filipino.War Against Betaism said:
Very true. One of my female cousins (who looks incredibly white) brought home a black boyfriend a few months back. She was flipping SHUNNED. No one would hold a decent convo with her while he was around, and when he was gone, it was all "why the hell are you dating that puto n3gro???" "oh my god. What the hell!?" and behind her back "she is such a major slvt."kayman79 said:
No actually you're ignorant. Go back to his post...those villages are poor as hell and nobody can afford to LEAVE TO THE USA. Seriously who would leave that village to the USA and "go back for a village virgin"saturos said:
I'm just curious, do you have any theories on what explains anti-black racism from Mexicans? I really don't know where it originates, because I don't know any black people who hate Mexicans in general or Latinos. I don't know any blacks that would think anything of it if their son or daughter brough home a Latino. It's not like blacks historically did something horrible to Mexicans like fought a war against them or something. I just don't know why so many Mexicans have hatred for blacks. Not all of course, but the hate that does exist seems to only go in one direction. Blacks for the most part don't seem to have any problem with Latinos unless the Latinos are messing with them first. Any ideas?Big Poppa said:
So your whol argument until now is about indian(etc.) people? If so, I don't think the ones in my area are like that.(in the USA)Cinamon said:I should clarify, my comments were based on my experience of dating, Pakistani, Indian, Bengali, and Sri-lankan guys. I have not quite hit Asia-pacific yet, but I am getting round to it
That's actually an interesting question. My personal theory is that because American culture/western culture is the dominant culture worldwide, people of other cultures have a tendency to follow the norms and status quo of western culture. This includes both beauty standards and perceptions of certain cultures. Maybe it's attempt to get closer to being accepted by western culture themselves. To put it bluntly, if blacks are considered underclass citizens in western culture other cultures will follow in that belief. This is why you see many Asians, middle eastern and other groups who have had no long negative history with blacks responding the same way that big poppa's family did when his female family member dated a black guy.speakeasy said:
That theory makes sense. I think the one saving grace is that even though most people have their prejudices, many people, or even most people have the ability to judge certain people as individuals on a case-by-case basis when need be. Only the truly backward don't have the ability to do this. I think if you are meeting a girl's family and you suspect that family may not be too happy about people like you showing up for dinner, you have to find a way to hold a powerful DHV frame. I would probably even use some DJ techniques on the family, c&f, playfully negging, not coming off as begging for acceptance, making them qualify themselves to me. I think if you can get to the point where the doubting family members are put in the position where they have to qualify themselves to you, then the family acceptance issue has resolved.kayman79 said:
Yea, I totally see the whole cultural influence when I watched indian movies with my family. But I think in todays western society, skin tone doesn't really matter anymore to our men. Now, in terms of a physical standpoint, a lot more value is given to how your body is shaped/how your face looks.Cinamon said:
