“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ashamed because you messed things up?

Driggs

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Forget about it. If you messed things up with a girl you should have nexted her anyway.

A lot of times when I am nexting a girl I really like, I do so in a chumpish, wishywashy way that probably makes me look terrible.

But I next her. I don't sit around and put up with BS, games and drama. I am not a cab company. I am not a therapist. I am not a moving company.

If things got hosed up with you and a girl, it doesn't matter. You don't care what she thinks of you. Move the fvck on. The earlier you do this the less set in stone her memories of your crazy or angry behavior will be. The more likely she will be to come back. The better your chances will be with her later, but when later arrives you won't care so much.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good post.

Relationships fail because people are not compatible.. NOT because people "mess up". Men need to get out of the mindset that dealing with women is like playing a video game or a sport where you "win or lose". There is no winning or losing with women.. just outcomes.

The only way a man can "mess up" is by being fake or being a faggot.--> Compromising his values, not living the life he wants to live and tolerating abuse ALL for the sake of p*ssy. There are no beta faggots when p*ssy is not involved. Therefore, beta faggot behavior is FAKE behavior based on fear. Cut it out.

You'll never feel terrible when a relationship fails if you stick to your values and respect yourself no matter what. NEVER do things you don't believe in to keep a woman.

Always treat a woman exactly how you believe she DESERVES to be treated. No better and no worse. Don't compromise your values and self respect because of good sex or HB9 looks.
 
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