Ashamed because you messed things up?

[Driggs]

Forget about it. If you messed things up with a girl you should have nexted her anyway.

A lot of times when I am nexting a girl I really like, I do so in a chumpish, wishywashy way that probably makes me look terrible.

But I next her. I don't sit around and put up with BS, games and drama. I am not a cab company. I am not a therapist. I am not a moving company.

If things got hosed up with you and a girl, it doesn't matter. You don't care what she thinks of you. Move the fvck on. The earlier you do this the less set in stone her memories of your crazy or angry behavior will be. The more likely she will be to come back. The better your chances will be with her later, but when later arrives you won't care so much.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Good post.

Relationships fail because people are not compatible.. NOT because people "mess up". Men need to get out of the mindset that dealing with women is like playing a video game or a sport where you "win or lose". There is no winning or losing with women.. just outcomes.

The only way a man can "mess up" is by being fake or being a faggot.--> Compromising his values, not living the life he wants to live and tolerating abuse ALL for the sake of p*ssy. There are no beta faggots when p*ssy is not involved. Therefore, beta faggot behavior is FAKE behavior based on fear. Cut it out.

You'll never feel terrible when a relationship fails if you stick to your values and respect yourself no matter what. NEVER do things you don't believe in to keep a woman.

Always treat a woman exactly how you believe she DESERVES to be treated. No better and no worse. Don't compromise your values and self respect because of good sex or HB9 looks.