"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ashamed because you messed things up?

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Forget about it. If you messed things up with a girl you should have nexted her anyway.

A lot of times when I am nexting a girl I really like, I do so in a chumpish, wishywashy way that probably makes me look terrible.

But I next her. I don't sit around and put up with BS, games and drama. I am not a cab company. I am not a therapist. I am not a moving company.

If things got hosed up with you and a girl, it doesn't matter. You don't care what she thinks of you. Move the fvck on. The earlier you do this the less set in stone her memories of your crazy or angry behavior will be. The more likely she will be to come back. The better your chances will be with her later, but when later arrives you won't care so much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good post.

Relationships fail because people are not compatible.. NOT because people "mess up". Men need to get out of the mindset that dealing with women is like playing a video game or a sport where you "win or lose". There is no winning or losing with women.. just outcomes.

The only way a man can "mess up" is by being fake or being a faggot.--> Compromising his values, not living the life he wants to live and tolerating abuse ALL for the sake of p*ssy. There are no beta faggots when p*ssy is not involved. Therefore, beta faggot behavior is FAKE behavior based on fear. Cut it out.

You'll never feel terrible when a relationship fails if you stick to your values and respect yourself no matter what. NEVER do things you don't believe in to keep a woman.

Always treat a woman exactly how you believe she DESERVES to be treated. No better and no worse. Don't compromise your values and self respect because of good sex or HB9 looks.
 
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