"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met this girl HB7, we hooked up the same night. Date for about 2 months and she asked me out, I agreed. I broke up with her for reasons I can't explain, basically I wasn't ready for relationship.

Was no contact for 2 weeks she texted me that she had to talk to me. Claimed her friends ditched her at a bar, went she was drunk out of her mind and I took her home. We didn't do anything but make out, but she wanted more. I got drunk Sunday and ended up going over and had sex with her.

We basically started dating again unofficially, but again kind of fell off, no contact for a week. Last Friday she claimed her friends ditched her again and wanted me to pick her up nearby. I did, she was hammered again.

I suggested we go to a bar and she agreed. She said she "was going to be my wing woman and I should go for women that aren't my type". So all night she was trying to hook me up with whales. I left her alone with some guys from New York and did my own thing, she was even more hammered pounding shots.

She texted me wondering were I was, 5 minutes laterI than decided that I was interested and plan to take her away from those guys, low and behold she was making out with some dude.

Needless to say I was kind of dishearted and I am pretty sure she banged some dude. She texted me the next day and asked me "how was your night". I told her I don't want to be friends an to not contact me because I still have feelings. She said I wanted to be friends, but I didn't respond.

Today she texted me that her mom died and that she needed some one to watch her dog until friday, who I actually love. So now I am sitting here with her dog like a chode.


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For the record I am not just sitting around crying I went out Saturday and Sunday and met another girl Sunday
 
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You is a WEENY.

You know what your doing yet you still choose it. SMH.
 
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Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
 
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nmartinez12443 said:
Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
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This^

I dont overuse the term wh0re like some men on here....but its valid here. Only wh0res would actually hook up RIGHT IN FRONT of their beta pursuers. Usually they will give you the courtesy of banging a dude without your knowledge.

Rule: Dont be the "fixer upper". If shes a wh0re she gets screen out. There is plenty of better women out there than her. Its probably better finding out this way, then by waking up with an itchy d1ck and burning urine. I wouldnt lose even a wink of sleep over it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree I'm giving the dog back Friday and did this as a favor since we did date albeit for only a month and her mom died. I am the one who broke up with her and she constantly wanted to get back together. However kissing a guy right in front of me is something I would not do my worst enemy. Will no contact
 
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