"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nmartinez12443

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Met this girl HB7, we hooked up the same night. Date for about 2 months and she asked me out, I agreed. I broke up with her for reasons I can't explain, basically I wasn't ready for relationship.

Was no contact for 2 weeks she texted me that she had to talk to me. Claimed her friends ditched her at a bar, went she was drunk out of her mind and I took her home. We didn't do anything but make out, but she wanted more. I got drunk Sunday and ended up going over and had sex with her.

We basically started dating again unofficially, but again kind of fell off, no contact for a week. Last Friday she claimed her friends ditched her again and wanted me to pick her up nearby. I did, she was hammered again.

I suggested we go to a bar and she agreed. She said she "was going to be my wing woman and I should go for women that aren't my type". So all night she was trying to hook me up with whales. I left her alone with some guys from New York and did my own thing, she was even more hammered pounding shots.

She texted me wondering were I was, 5 minutes laterI than decided that I was interested and plan to take her away from those guys, low and behold she was making out with some dude.

Needless to say I was kind of dishearted and I am pretty sure she banged some dude. She texted me the next day and asked me "how was your night". I told her I don't want to be friends an to not contact me because I still have feelings. She said I wanted to be friends, but I didn't respond.

Today she texted me that her mom died and that she needed some one to watch her dog until friday, who I actually love. So now I am sitting here with her dog like a chode.


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nmartinez12443

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For the record I am not just sitting around crying I went out Saturday and Sunday and met another girl Sunday
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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You is a WEENY.

You know what your doing yet you still choose it. SMH.
 

Dgwizdal

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Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
 

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nmartinez12443 said:
Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
This^

I dont overuse the term wh0re like some men on here....but its valid here. Only wh0res would actually hook up RIGHT IN FRONT of their beta pursuers. Usually they will give you the courtesy of banging a dude without your knowledge.

Rule: Dont be the "fixer upper". If shes a wh0re she gets screen out. There is plenty of better women out there than her. Its probably better finding out this way, then by waking up with an itchy d1ck and burning urine. I wouldnt lose even a wink of sleep over it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nmartinez12443

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I agree I'm giving the dog back Friday and did this as a favor since we did date albeit for only a month and her mom died. I am the one who broke up with her and she constantly wanted to get back together. However kissing a guy right in front of me is something I would not do my worst enemy. Will no contact
 
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