"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Met this girl HB7, we hooked up the same night. Date for about 2 months and she asked me out, I agreed. I broke up with her for reasons I can't explain, basically I wasn't ready for relationship.

Was no contact for 2 weeks she texted me that she had to talk to me. Claimed her friends ditched her at a bar, went she was drunk out of her mind and I took her home. We didn't do anything but make out, but she wanted more. I got drunk Sunday and ended up going over and had sex with her.

We basically started dating again unofficially, but again kind of fell off, no contact for a week. Last Friday she claimed her friends ditched her again and wanted me to pick her up nearby. I did, she was hammered again.

I suggested we go to a bar and she agreed. She said she "was going to be my wing woman and I should go for women that aren't my type". So all night she was trying to hook me up with whales. I left her alone with some guys from New York and did my own thing, she was even more hammered pounding shots.

She texted me wondering were I was, 5 minutes laterI than decided that I was interested and plan to take her away from those guys, low and behold she was making out with some dude.

Needless to say I was kind of dishearted and I am pretty sure she banged some dude. She texted me the next day and asked me "how was your night". I told her I don't want to be friends an to not contact me because I still have feelings. She said I wanted to be friends, but I didn't respond.

Today she texted me that her mom died and that she needed some one to watch her dog until friday, who I actually love. So now I am sitting here with her dog like a chode.


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For the record I am not just sitting around crying I went out Saturday and Sunday and met another girl Sunday
 
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You is a WEENY.

You know what your doing yet you still choose it. SMH.
 
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Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
 
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nmartinez12443 said:
Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
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This^

I dont overuse the term wh0re like some men on here....but its valid here. Only wh0res would actually hook up RIGHT IN FRONT of their beta pursuers. Usually they will give you the courtesy of banging a dude without your knowledge.

Rule: Dont be the "fixer upper". If shes a wh0re she gets screen out. There is plenty of better women out there than her. Its probably better finding out this way, then by waking up with an itchy d1ck and burning urine. I wouldnt lose even a wink of sleep over it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree I'm giving the dog back Friday and did this as a favor since we did date albeit for only a month and her mom died. I am the one who broke up with her and she constantly wanted to get back together. However kissing a guy right in front of me is something I would not do my worst enemy. Will no contact
 
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