"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nmartinez12443

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Met this girl HB7, we hooked up the same night. Date for about 2 months and she asked me out, I agreed. I broke up with her for reasons I can't explain, basically I wasn't ready for relationship.

Was no contact for 2 weeks she texted me that she had to talk to me. Claimed her friends ditched her at a bar, went she was drunk out of her mind and I took her home. We didn't do anything but make out, but she wanted more. I got drunk Sunday and ended up going over and had sex with her.

We basically started dating again unofficially, but again kind of fell off, no contact for a week. Last Friday she claimed her friends ditched her again and wanted me to pick her up nearby. I did, she was hammered again.

I suggested we go to a bar and she agreed. She said she "was going to be my wing woman and I should go for women that aren't my type". So all night she was trying to hook me up with whales. I left her alone with some guys from New York and did my own thing, she was even more hammered pounding shots.

She texted me wondering were I was, 5 minutes laterI than decided that I was interested and plan to take her away from those guys, low and behold she was making out with some dude.

Needless to say I was kind of dishearted and I am pretty sure she banged some dude. She texted me the next day and asked me "how was your night". I told her I don't want to be friends an to not contact me because I still have feelings. She said I wanted to be friends, but I didn't respond.

Today she texted me that her mom died and that she needed some one to watch her dog until friday, who I actually love. So now I am sitting here with her dog like a chode.


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nmartinez12443

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For the record I am not just sitting around crying I went out Saturday and Sunday and met another girl Sunday
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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You is a WEENY.

You know what your doing yet you still choose it. SMH.
 

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Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
 

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nmartinez12443 said:
Sounds like she didnt want a relationship anyway and then she switched the frame on you. Tell her to go to the pound where that sloot belongs.
This^

I dont overuse the term wh0re like some men on here....but its valid here. Only wh0res would actually hook up RIGHT IN FRONT of their beta pursuers. Usually they will give you the courtesy of banging a dude without your knowledge.

Rule: Dont be the "fixer upper". If shes a wh0re she gets screen out. There is plenty of better women out there than her. Its probably better finding out this way, then by waking up with an itchy d1ck and burning urine. I wouldnt lose even a wink of sleep over it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nmartinez12443

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I agree I'm giving the dog back Friday and did this as a favor since we did date albeit for only a month and her mom died. I am the one who broke up with her and she constantly wanted to get back together. However kissing a guy right in front of me is something I would not do my worst enemy. Will no contact
 
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