"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Article: Woman forsakes her beautiful face

Desdinova

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I've said it before, that the AFCs of our society are ruining the personalities of women. These AFCs spoil women with gifts, cards, flowers, and fancy dinners. When a woman experiences men who behave the same way repeatedly, they begin putting up their b1tch shield.

Here's an interesting news article that just goes to show that this is true:

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http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2006-10/24/content_715275.htm

Woman forsakes her beautiful face
(China Daily)
Updated: 2006-10-24 08:56

A young woman from Chongqing sought plastic surgery to make her face less attractive recently, after being crossed in love.

The 23-year-old woman's sweetheart left her weeks ago to stay with another woman. Although the two had been in love for six years, her ex-boyfriend feared that her too-beautiful face might lure many other men and thus he didn't feel safe staying with her.

She came to hate all men after being courted by many others, prompting her desire for the surgery. But the doctors refused to co-operate, saying she had a mental disorder and needed to seek help from psychotherapists.

Chongqing Times
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Personally I think they both have mental problems.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desdinova said:
I've said it before, that the AFCs of our society are ruining the personalities of women. These AFCs spoil women with gifts, cards, flowers, and fancy dinners. When a woman experiences men who behave the same way repeatedly, they begin putting up their b1tch shield.
I agree 100%!

Heck, AFCs do that with ANY women these days! It's like they're all scared of anyone with a vag and cower down to their wishes as their commands. It's really amazing to watch this happen no matter how fugly the woman is. Men have simply been trained by the Matriarx to bow their heads and kowtow to them all, now.

Men need to start FIGHTING BACK, already! :box:
 

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Gotta love the extremes people will go through just for acceptance. :rolleyes:
 

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Chongqing????

sounds like a weird place in the first place (most likely not all there are mentally abled)
 

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To my knowledge this afc problem began between 1994-1997, I still remember seeing the first britney spears video and I knew at that moment if she was a hit, then culture would change. Thus changed culture of the type of clothes made for girls. It began that concept that any girl who dressed with tight enough clothes, and slutty enough could get any guy she wanted. And when one girl is getting all the hot guys, then all her friends and enemies start doing the same thing.

Guy's however have not changed for the longest time but this new concept has taken advantage of the desires of man.

Now that a girl is a 7-9 rating because of her makeup/dress/hair, most guys if not taught will think that she is the trophy.

The way to becoming a man is changing your mind what the trophy is... whether it be a sports trophy, or spirtual trophy, leader trophy. Once you have these trophies you will attract the real ladies that make your mother happy and you happy.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
Chongqing????

sounds like a weird place in the first place (most likely not all there are mentally abled)
Its in China, not America. You'll notice how the newspaper is called the "China Daily", not the "America Daily". Thus the foreign-sounding name.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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