"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Article: Woman forsakes her beautiful face

Desdinova

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I've said it before, that the AFCs of our society are ruining the personalities of women. These AFCs spoil women with gifts, cards, flowers, and fancy dinners. When a woman experiences men who behave the same way repeatedly, they begin putting up their b1tch shield.

Here's an interesting news article that just goes to show that this is true:

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http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2006-10/24/content_715275.htm

Woman forsakes her beautiful face
(China Daily)
Updated: 2006-10-24 08:56

A young woman from Chongqing sought plastic surgery to make her face less attractive recently, after being crossed in love.

The 23-year-old woman's sweetheart left her weeks ago to stay with another woman. Although the two had been in love for six years, her ex-boyfriend feared that her too-beautiful face might lure many other men and thus he didn't feel safe staying with her.

She came to hate all men after being courted by many others, prompting her desire for the surgery. But the doctors refused to co-operate, saying she had a mental disorder and needed to seek help from psychotherapists.

Chongqing Times
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Personally I think they both have mental problems.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova said:
I've said it before, that the AFCs of our society are ruining the personalities of women. These AFCs spoil women with gifts, cards, flowers, and fancy dinners. When a woman experiences men who behave the same way repeatedly, they begin putting up their b1tch shield.
I agree 100%!

Heck, AFCs do that with ANY women these days! It's like they're all scared of anyone with a vag and cower down to their wishes as their commands. It's really amazing to watch this happen no matter how fugly the woman is. Men have simply been trained by the Matriarx to bow their heads and kowtow to them all, now.

Men need to start FIGHTING BACK, already! :box:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gotta love the extremes people will go through just for acceptance. :rolleyes:
 

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Chongqing????

sounds like a weird place in the first place (most likely not all there are mentally abled)
 

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To my knowledge this afc problem began between 1994-1997, I still remember seeing the first britney spears video and I knew at that moment if she was a hit, then culture would change. Thus changed culture of the type of clothes made for girls. It began that concept that any girl who dressed with tight enough clothes, and slutty enough could get any guy she wanted. And when one girl is getting all the hot guys, then all her friends and enemies start doing the same thing.

Guy's however have not changed for the longest time but this new concept has taken advantage of the desires of man.

Now that a girl is a 7-9 rating because of her makeup/dress/hair, most guys if not taught will think that she is the trophy.

The way to becoming a man is changing your mind what the trophy is... whether it be a sports trophy, or spirtual trophy, leader trophy. Once you have these trophies you will attract the real ladies that make your mother happy and you happy.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
Chongqing????

sounds like a weird place in the first place (most likely not all there are mentally abled)
Its in China, not America. You'll notice how the newspaper is called the "China Daily", not the "America Daily". Thus the foreign-sounding name.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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