"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Article: Woman forsakes her beautiful face

Desdinova

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I've said it before, that the AFCs of our society are ruining the personalities of women. These AFCs spoil women with gifts, cards, flowers, and fancy dinners. When a woman experiences men who behave the same way repeatedly, they begin putting up their b1tch shield.

Here's an interesting news article that just goes to show that this is true:

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http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2006-10/24/content_715275.htm

Woman forsakes her beautiful face
(China Daily)
Updated: 2006-10-24 08:56

A young woman from Chongqing sought plastic surgery to make her face less attractive recently, after being crossed in love.

The 23-year-old woman's sweetheart left her weeks ago to stay with another woman. Although the two had been in love for six years, her ex-boyfriend feared that her too-beautiful face might lure many other men and thus he didn't feel safe staying with her.

She came to hate all men after being courted by many others, prompting her desire for the surgery. But the doctors refused to co-operate, saying she had a mental disorder and needed to seek help from psychotherapists.

Chongqing Times
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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diplomatic_lies

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Personally I think they both have mental problems.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova said:
I've said it before, that the AFCs of our society are ruining the personalities of women. These AFCs spoil women with gifts, cards, flowers, and fancy dinners. When a woman experiences men who behave the same way repeatedly, they begin putting up their b1tch shield.
I agree 100%!

Heck, AFCs do that with ANY women these days! It's like they're all scared of anyone with a vag and cower down to their wishes as their commands. It's really amazing to watch this happen no matter how fugly the woman is. Men have simply been trained by the Matriarx to bow their heads and kowtow to them all, now.

Men need to start FIGHTING BACK, already! :box:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gotta love the extremes people will go through just for acceptance. :rolleyes:
 

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Chongqing????

sounds like a weird place in the first place (most likely not all there are mentally abled)
 

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To my knowledge this afc problem began between 1994-1997, I still remember seeing the first britney spears video and I knew at that moment if she was a hit, then culture would change. Thus changed culture of the type of clothes made for girls. It began that concept that any girl who dressed with tight enough clothes, and slutty enough could get any guy she wanted. And when one girl is getting all the hot guys, then all her friends and enemies start doing the same thing.

Guy's however have not changed for the longest time but this new concept has taken advantage of the desires of man.

Now that a girl is a 7-9 rating because of her makeup/dress/hair, most guys if not taught will think that she is the trophy.

The way to becoming a man is changing your mind what the trophy is... whether it be a sports trophy, or spirtual trophy, leader trophy. Once you have these trophies you will attract the real ladies that make your mother happy and you happy.
 

diplomatic_lies

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skip2mylou781 said:
Chongqing????

sounds like a weird place in the first place (most likely not all there are mentally abled)
Its in China, not America. You'll notice how the newspaper is called the "China Daily", not the "America Daily". Thus the foreign-sounding name.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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