"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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sodbuster

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IF you've never had a negative experience with women...I'm guessing you've never dated. Sure you bounce back,but each time you become a bit more jaded. Until you realize that only about 1 in 10 are worth much...and they are usually ugly so they had to develop as a person.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jaylan

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sodbuster said:
IF you've never had a negative experience with women...I'm guessing you've never dated. Sure you bounce back,but each time you become a bit more jaded. Until you realize that only about 1 in 10 are worth much...and they are usually ugly so they had to develop as a person.
I have dated plenty. And I have had a lot of good and bad experiences. Enough to know that there are just as many people worth dating and not worth dating out there. Def not 1 in 10 as you claim.

Maybe 1 in 10 if you are looking for someone you reeeeaallly connect with. For me it is even more rare to find a girl I want to be exclusive to, but that doesnt mean there arent any girls out there that are cool and that I can have fun with.

Strelok said:
No sis according to our last talking (the one where all the users were bashing at you in many ways) I have no reason to be frustrated. :whistle:
Just a short reminder before you start again that your bvllsh1t quota has been passed for this month.
*yawn* :rolleyes:

You always speak of those who disagree with me or "bash" me, but easily gloss over those who agree with me or share a similar viewpoint.

Whatever dude. Do you.
 

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Jaylan said:
*yawn* :rolleyes:

You always speak of those who disagree with me or "bash" me, but easily gloss over those who agree with me or share a similar viewpoint.

Whatever dude. Do you.
My imagination is not as creative as yours apparently.
 
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