She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have dated plenty. And I have had a lot of good and bad experiences. Enough to know that there are just as many people worth dating and not worth dating out there. Def not 1 in 10 as you claim.sodbuster said:
*yawn*Strelok said:No sis according to our last talking (the one where all the users were bashing at you in many ways) I have no reason to be frustrated.
Just a short reminder before you start again that your bvllsh1t quota has been passed for this month.
My imagination is not as creative as yours apparently.Jaylan said:*yawn*
You always speak of those who disagree with me or "bash" me, but easily gloss over those who agree with me or share a similar viewpoint.
Whatever dude. Do you.