MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
article: Why Women Have Sex
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Anytime a woman will go out purposely to get an std to give it to a man who cheated on her, how can you blame the guy? I'd want to get away from her craziness also.
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tj
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I got to the part where it talked about having sex to "emotionally bond".
Horse crp.
Horse crp.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
I've read the book.
It's pretty good and talks about the evolutionary reasons of everything we discuss here.
It's pretty good and talks about the evolutionary reasons of everything we discuss here.
zekko
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I thought this part was interesting, especially since around here it seems like the first thing everyone says is get into the gym. In my experience women do like their guys to be in shape, and they DO like muscles, but I have heard this before that they don't like the competitive bodybuilding look. At some point it appears you will get diminishing returns from women for lifting.
The other thing that caught my eye was the bits about "revenge sex" and "mate poaching". Girls will have sex with a guy to get revenge at someone. Maybe if you cheat on her with another girl, she will have sex with that girl's boyfriend to get even with both of you. I've seen that happen.
And I've definitely seen a lot of "mate poaching". From what I've seen girls will shamelessly go after each other's men, some of them anyway. Definitely more likley to happen that for a guy to go after another guy's girl. And when they do it's often at the girl's instigation. Men have a SLIGHTLY better sense of honor when it comes to this type of thing. Bros before hos, you know.
Bragging rights to friends? My friends rarely even meet any girls i go out with.
Hmm... is that why they always show up with women when we go out but i don't? They're showing off or they just have nothing else to do with their dates?
Hmm... is that why they always show up with women when we go out but i don't? They're showing off or they just have nothing else to do with their dates?