It's whatever the need to get ahead these days. For some, it's spanx, others it's surgery. Most though do make-up, spanx and other simple things like that.
maybe if I had to work in sales or in corporate office. I hate the idea of baiting men using my looks tools.
I always have. Its why I never learned alot about makeup or hairstyles.
I'm not sure I want to get married anymore either.
So I will not need to live up to some ideal of a trophy wife my husband needs to impress colleagues.
That engineer email friend I lost contact with suggested he'd need me to know how to impress colleagues but that's 2012 and its been a long time since we communicated. (he was the only bodybuilder I knew of that was vasectomized, childfree by choice) What a loss.
Our last emails had me talking about asexuality. What an overzealously honest fool I was. I thought many times of hiring an American P.I. to find him and get him a message but when a man makes a decision on you, that's it for life.