RickTheToad
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It's whatever the need to get ahead these days. For some, it's spanx, others it's surgery. Most though do make-up, spanx and other simple things like that.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
that's something my Dad would have said but not using the word hot and not in front of my mother, lol
Still looks pretty hot to me.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
See how it's "just a female" without all the makeup.?
Still looks pretty hot to me.
maybe if I had to work in sales or in corporate office. I hate the idea of baiting men using my looks tools.
I always have. Its why I never learned alot about makeup or hairstyles.
I'm not sure I want to get married anymore either.
So I will not need to live up to some ideal of a trophy wife my husband needs to impress colleagues.
That engineer email friend I lost contact with suggested he'd need me to know how to impress colleagues but that's 2012 and its been a long time since we communicated. (he was the only bodybuilder I knew of that was vasectomized, childfree by choice) What a loss.
Our last emails had me talking about asexuality. What an overzealously honest fool I was. I thought many times of hiring an American P.I. to find him and get him a message but when a man makes a decision on you, that's it for life.
RickTheToad
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It's Sofia Veragara.. Not many females can compete with her; and she's like 50 something I think. A lot of females from S.A. age well if they take care of themselves. She's Colombian I believe.
You're in the minority. Many females want to max out their looks to land a HPM.. Nothing wrong with that at all.
No doubt.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
EyeBRollin
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Her facial aesthetics are average at best. She’s a 5.
Still looks pretty hot to me.
Exactly my point. There ain't nothing special with 90% of these gals in terms of looks once the makeup comes off.
And the pics that RickTheToad posted are filtered and best pics of her without makeup that are staged and taken by her or someone she knows. Key Point...
I'm not falling for that as there was a "natural" IG fad a little while ago where these ho's try to post make-up less pics of themselves but peeps soon realized they were using skin moisturizers and other "natural" forms of products to keep their skin glowing and healthy looking and also using filters. So effectively cheating while trying to stage a more natural and makeup less appearance. Homey don't fall for that $hit.
Yes, a high powered/performance male would be nice to be around.
I'm thinking I have some decisions made and some boundaries set because of reading and posting here on sosuave.
It is an amazing resource tool.
Grateful for the calibrations
RickTheToad
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You're cuckoo for coco puffs if you believe that.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So what do you see? Without makeup I see an average face with nothing special to draw my attention.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Someone looks can get more conservative as they age so you won't see how she looked as a ho in her youth.
RickTheToad
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Still an attractive female.
MatureDJ
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Actually, that gal looks pretty good once you discount the sunburn. I'd hit it.
Chacun son gout. Each man has different tastes and a few are similar.Actually, that gal looks pretty good once you discount the sunburn. I'd hit it.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Part of whats attractive is opinion and personal taste.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree.
When the girls didn't know what they didn't know, it almost became an addiction when they did finally know.
Sometimes I think a lot of gender related evolutionary shifts are one gender playing a joke on the other.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This first pic shows no favorable facial structure, eyes nose and lips all "normal". After makeup magic we see something different.I agree.
Just do a google search on all the top looking gals in the media and you'll see that less than 10% has natural beauty without any aids.
This one comes to mind...Sofia Vergara of Modern Family sitcom.
