MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
article: Why Having A Backup Guy May Be Your Smartest Dating Move
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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We've known women have rotations as well for a long time...
You have to understand, these women, they want to be us... They want to have all the cool **** is men have, right down to masculinity.
But the one thing we have is logic: the next logical step for men is for us to default on our social contracts, all of it. We do nothing for women and all of our actions and time become monetized... No longer will there be a social contract for us to follow, we will be free of Stigma to do all that we want, regardless of how much tail you get or how much money you make, men will be men again.
Default on your social contract!
You have to understand, these women, they want to be us... They want to have all the cool **** is men have, right down to masculinity.
But the one thing we have is logic: the next logical step for men is for us to default on our social contracts, all of it. We do nothing for women and all of our actions and time become monetized... No longer will there be a social contract for us to follow, we will be free of Stigma to do all that we want, regardless of how much tail you get or how much money you make, men will be men again.
Default on your social contract!
The psychology behind backup boyfriends
The younger a woman is the more likely it is she has a backup man. According to this article from psychologyToday it's an evolutionary feature.
Makes sense imo
The younger a woman is the more likely it is she has a backup man. According to this article from psychologyToday it's an evolutionary feature.
Makes sense imo
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's not quite evolutionary. Every 10 years ago their standards and what they want shifts a a little bit. It's a group thing. For females from 25-35 years old, they've been preached some of the following:
1. Don't get married before 30
2. Don't just date one guy at a time ( this was due to their hearts getting broken in old days, it wasn't for swapping out c0cks, but that's what it became )
3. Have a backup guy and maybe even a backup to him.
good one
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I see its from 2015, let us know if its worth when you're done reading it.
I believe sociey doesnt chance as fast as 5 years but technology does, thats the reason I no longer bother to read the dj bible since years.
Untill now from 1 to 10, how much would you give that book?