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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
article: Why Having A Backup Guy May Be Your Smartest Dating Move
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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We've known women have rotations as well for a long time...
You have to understand, these women, they want to be us... They want to have all the cool **** is men have, right down to masculinity.
But the one thing we have is logic: the next logical step for men is for us to default on our social contracts, all of it. We do nothing for women and all of our actions and time become monetized... No longer will there be a social contract for us to follow, we will be free of Stigma to do all that we want, regardless of how much tail you get or how much money you make, men will be men again.
Default on your social contract!
You have to understand, these women, they want to be us... They want to have all the cool **** is men have, right down to masculinity.
But the one thing we have is logic: the next logical step for men is for us to default on our social contracts, all of it. We do nothing for women and all of our actions and time become monetized... No longer will there be a social contract for us to follow, we will be free of Stigma to do all that we want, regardless of how much tail you get or how much money you make, men will be men again.
Default on your social contract!
The psychology behind backup boyfriends
The younger a woman is the more likely it is she has a backup man. According to this article from psychologyToday it's an evolutionary feature.
Makes sense imo
The younger a woman is the more likely it is she has a backup man. According to this article from psychologyToday it's an evolutionary feature.
Makes sense imo
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's not quite evolutionary. Every 10 years ago their standards and what they want shifts a a little bit. It's a group thing. For females from 25-35 years old, they've been preached some of the following:
1. Don't get married before 30
2. Don't just date one guy at a time ( this was due to their hearts getting broken in old days, it wasn't for swapping out c0cks, but that's what it became )
3. Have a backup guy and maybe even a backup to him.
good one
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I see its from 2015, let us know if its worth when you're done reading it.
I believe sociey doesnt chance as fast as 5 years but technology does, thats the reason I no longer bother to read the dj bible since years.
Untill now from 1 to 10, how much would you give that book?