MatureDJ
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The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's not quite evolutionary. Every 10 years ago their standards and what they want shifts a a little bit. It's a group thing. For females from 25-35 years old, they've been preached some of the following:The psychology behind backup boyfriends
The younger a woman is the more likely it is she has a backup man. According to this article from psychologyToday it's an evolutionary feature.
Makes sense imo
good oneYou don’t need to dismiss romance as a whole. You just need to find a better purpose that has nothing to do with needing someone else to act a certain way. That will set you free.
I see its from 2015, let us know if its worth when you're done reading it.Just started a new book.
Practical female Psycology: for the Practical Man.
Already great book. Heard Ryan stone talk about it. Its a colaberative author.
Hoghly recomend.