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Marriage Under Threat: What Drives Men to Marry?
successful-marriage.blogspot.com
C0ck carouseler:
At 11 on a weeknight earlier this year, her work finished, a slim, pretty junior at the University of Pennsylvania did what she often does when she has a little free time. She texted her regular hookup — the guy she is sleeping with but not dating. What was he up to? He texted back: Come over. So she did. They watched a little TV, had sex and went to sleep.
“I positioned myself in college in such a way that I can’t have a meaningful romantic relationship, because I’m always busy and the people that I am interested in are always busy, too,” she said.
The author nails it:“Ten years from now, no one will remember — I will not remember — who I have slept with,” A. said. “But I will remember, like, my transcript, because it’s still there. I will remember what I did. I will remember my accomplishments and places my name is hung on campus.”
Sex means so little to A that she doesn’t expect to remember all the men she’s slept with. She gives herself to men she doesn’t like because they’re good in bed. Given her history and the fundamental importance of sex, why does she think that any man would want to marry her?