MatureDJ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
article: Very Honest Men Explain Why They Refuse To Date Fat Women
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Its a piss poor attempt to mitigate squandered SMV. The push of single moms, 'sloot gonna sloot' anti sloot shame, anti fat shame, etc. are hilarious agendas. Only a cuck with low testosterone cannot see through the fog. There is a series of broken fragile spinless cowards out raising some other man's baby, marrying a *****, and crying online when they get served.
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Fat women can go kick rocks. Let the fat and/or desperate dudes date the fat women. There are many reasons she is overweight, most of which is under her control.
I will agree that guys should not be rude or disrespectful to these women.
I will agree that guys should not be rude or disrespectful to these women.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zekko
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I don't believe for one moment that these women don't understand why some guys don't find them appealing.
I've seen too much stuff about fat women being insecure with themselves to think that they don't get it.
I don't believe that they look in the mirror and don't see a problem.
That said, I don't believe that it is that easy for all of these women to control their weight problem either, even though these forums say otherwise.
I've seen too much stuff about fat women being insecure with themselves to think that they don't get it.
I don't believe that they look in the mirror and don't see a problem.
That said, I don't believe that it is that easy for all of these women to control their weight problem either, even though these forums say otherwise.