MatureDJ
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
article: Very Honest Men Explain Why They Refuse To Date Fat Women
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Its a piss poor attempt to mitigate squandered SMV. The push of single moms, 'sloot gonna sloot' anti sloot shame, anti fat shame, etc. are hilarious agendas. Only a cuck with low testosterone cannot see through the fog. There is a series of broken fragile spinless cowards out raising some other man's baby, marrying a *****, and crying online when they get served.
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Fat women can go kick rocks. Let the fat and/or desperate dudes date the fat women. There are many reasons she is overweight, most of which is under her control.
I will agree that guys should not be rude or disrespectful to these women.
I will agree that guys should not be rude or disrespectful to these women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
zekko
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I don't believe for one moment that these women don't understand why some guys don't find them appealing.
I've seen too much stuff about fat women being insecure with themselves to think that they don't get it.
I don't believe that they look in the mirror and don't see a problem.
That said, I don't believe that it is that easy for all of these women to control their weight problem either, even though these forums say otherwise.
I've seen too much stuff about fat women being insecure with themselves to think that they don't get it.
I don't believe that they look in the mirror and don't see a problem.
That said, I don't believe that it is that easy for all of these women to control their weight problem either, even though these forums say otherwise.