MatureDJ
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Withdrawal Is a Perfectly Acceptable Contraceptive. Why Are Doctors So Against It?
Many, many people use it—and like it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
article: The Case for Pulling Out Withdrawal is a perfectly effective form of contraception. So why are some doctors and sex educators so against it?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BillyPilgrim
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Abortion $. Also, loosh from the killings
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Withdrawal might be close in its effectiveness to the use of either male condoms or female condoms. It's so easy to make a mistake with the withdrawal method.
Withdrawal offers no STD protection and condoms do.
Withdrawal might be acceptable in certain monogamous relationships but it might be a false sense of security. It's unknown when your partner has an extra-relational affair or when you have one.
Withdrawal offers no STD protection and condoms do.
Withdrawal might be acceptable in certain monogamous relationships but it might be a false sense of security. It's unknown when your partner has an extra-relational affair or when you have one.
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Because most men have no control over their bodily functions to do this properly.
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This is worth discussing. Perhaps I'm unique but I know when I am about to ejaculate and I could withdraw if I wanted to do that. Since I'm using condoms, I usually don't withdraw as there isn't much of a point to do so.
There are also times where I penetrate so much but don't ever get close to that near ejaculation point and then am finished off orally.
I think more men can do withdrawal properly than you think can but I also think you're correct that a good portion of men can't do this.
In all of this, we're also not talking about women's choices. Women make a conscious decision to either use some birth control method or not use one. Over time, more of the women I've had sex with were using some birth control method. It is likely also true that the women I have sex with are not a representative sample of women and their birth control choices.
Withdrawal is less necessary if the woman uses birth control. That said, I believe in Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 (Never allow a woman to be in control of the birthing) and I don't think it is a good idea for men in general to do that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Q: What do you call those who practice withdrawal?
A: Parents!
A: Parents!