"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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article: The Case for Pulling Out Withdrawal is a perfectly effective form of contraception. So why are some doctors and sex educators so against it?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Abortion $. Also, loosh from the killings
 
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Withdrawal might be close in its effectiveness to the use of either male condoms or female condoms. It's so easy to make a mistake with the withdrawal method.

Withdrawal offers no STD protection and condoms do.

Withdrawal might be acceptable in certain monogamous relationships but it might be a false sense of security. It's unknown when your partner has an extra-relational affair or when you have one.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
most men have no control over their bodily functions to do this properly.
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This is worth discussing. Perhaps I'm unique but I know when I am about to ejaculate and I could withdraw if I wanted to do that. Since I'm using condoms, I usually don't withdraw as there isn't much of a point to do so.

There are also times where I penetrate so much but don't ever get close to that near ejaculation point and then am finished off orally.

I think more men can do withdrawal properly than you think can but I also think you're correct that a good portion of men can't do this.

In all of this, we're also not talking about women's choices. Women make a conscious decision to either use some birth control method or not use one. Over time, more of the women I've had sex with were using some birth control method. It is likely also true that the women I have sex with are not a representative sample of women and their birth control choices.

Withdrawal is less necessary if the woman uses birth control. That said, I believe in Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 (Never allow a woman to be in control of the birthing) and I don't think it is a good idea for men in general to do that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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