MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
French and Japanese comparisons I don't mind, it's when they throw in some third world sh!thole like Bangladesh to really drive the point home. Give me a f*cking break with that one, Washington Post. It's no wonder Trump revoked your press pass. You people are pathetic.The average American is 33 pounds heavier than the average Frenchman, 40 pounds heavier than the average Japanese citizen, and a whopping 70 pounds heavier than the average citizen of Bangladesh
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you don't like fat cvnts then don't give them as much attention as a skinny babe. The issue here is that men don't punish women anymore for their irresponsible actions. Yes, some men like bigger women, but bigger women shouldn't on average get as much coddling from men as they get from them now. In summary, don't reward bad behavior for crying out loud!First of all, who the fvck are these blokes chasing the fatties?? Irrespective of that, if someone wants to fvck a fatty that's his prerogative- same way its no one's business if that same guy wants to fvck a 10.
Ridiculous to say it's men's fault that the average American's weight is as disproportionate as it is. Take some responsibility for yourself if your a fat cvnt instead of blaming take away food or men ffs lol.
Well women wouldn't be getting fatter and grosser then.They certainly do not receive as much attention. Not sure where you're getting that from
Have you ever thought that this stereotype is brought on that these types might be more prone to sucking and fvcking them better and cooking for them and going into their pockets.Black men still love them fatties... nuff said.
Also got to love them clubber girls trying to convince me about how healthy they are with their yoga and working out while they are smoking a cigarette and drinking their beer.. lolz... women
Main problem is the American diet... man people eat some nasty science lab cookies along with a diet coke and they wonder why they @ss is fat.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I know this white wildabeese hippo that is screwing black athletes left in right. In fact, she has screwed a Vikings player too.Black men still love them fatties... nuff said.
Also got to love them clubber girls trying to convince me about how healthy they are with their yoga and working out while they are smoking a cigarette and drinking their beer.. lolz... women
Main problem is the American diet... man people eat some nasty science lab cookies along with a diet coke and they wonder why they @ss is fat.
Ya I am not surprised.. but for me I cannot get it up for a fatty.I know this white wildabeese hippo that is screwing black athletes left in right. In fact, she has screwed a Vikings player too.
It's not just women it's everyone. Unless you actively try to stay healthy and actually cook on a regular basis you are gonna get fat. Too much bullish!t out there these days and everything you buy in a store is pretty much unhealthy.Well women wouldn't be getting fatter and grosser then.
Either way, it wouldn't hurt to not give whales as much attention as skinny girls. Idk why you are even against this?It's not just women it's everyone. Unless you actively try to stay healthy and actually cook on a regular basis you are gonna get fat. Too much bullish!t out there these days and everything you buy in a store is pretty much unhealthy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm not against it at all. I never have dated or fvcked a fat chick. I find that jiggling repulsive once the clothes come offEither way, it wouldn't hurt to not give whales as much attention as skinny girls. Idk why you are even against this?
I think we are talking about "thick" chicks versus fat with cellulite. Or maybe some do like the cellulite. A "thick" chick will be intact and have a bit mroe body fat and curves than a skinny girl. But she won't have rolls or obscene look to her naked. It will just look bigger.I'm not against it at all. I never have dated or fvcked a fat chick. I find that jiggling repulsive once the clothes come off
I agree, there's a difference between a thick chick and a fat chick. However, I love it when men ***** about their gfs getting fatter and accept it or screw fat women out of desperation.I think we are talking about "thick" chicks versus fat with cellulite. Or maybe some do like the cellulite. A "thick" chick will be intact and have a bit mroe body fat and curves than a skinny girl. But she won't have rolls or obscene look to her naked. It will just look bigger.
Taking head or ***** from a "fat" female friend is better than months going starving without anything... Trust me on that. Sometimes to get back in circulation you have to get your d1ck wet, and not in your hand!I agree, there's a difference between a thick chick and a fat chick. However, I love it when men ***** about their gfs getting fatter and accept it or screw fat women out of desperation.
Thick just means fat stored in different places. From a body fat perspective there is no difference. It might be stored in their butt instead if their stomach is the only differenceI think we are talking about "thick" chicks versus fat with cellulite. Or maybe some do like the cellulite. A "thick" chick will be intact and have a bit mroe body fat and curves than a skinny girl. But she won't have rolls or obscene look to her naked. It will just look bigger.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.