I personally prefer a woman with just a bit of weight on her to a skinny woman as they are more aesthetically pleasing to me
Furthermore, it allows me to use a woman's weight to my advantage, or perhaps their disadvantage. The average woman is extremely weight conscious. Because the average American women is not skinny you can do very subtle negative hits about weight to keep their ego in check. You just need to have them internalize their self-doubt and create a need...All humans seek self-actualization, this concept involves fundamental needs such as love and self-esteem. Induce the feeling of inadequacy. You create the need in them to fill their self-esteem and to be accepted... Then you offer the possibility of it.
I suggest studying psychology and using that as part of game... Particularly psychological and subtle covert emotional manipulations. I have studied books like "the Art of Psychological Warfare", "Dark Psychology 101", and "Manipulation Tactics" and it is very useful.